Wednesday, 12 January 2011

ទេពកោសល្យ​ដឹកនាំ​របស់​យុវតី​ខ្មែរ​​ សម័យ​​បច្ចុប្បន្ន


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ភាពជា​អ្នក​ដឹក​នាំ​ ចំពោះ​​នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ គឺ​ជា​ការ​ជះ​ឥទ្ធិពល​ទៅ​លើ​មនុស្ស​ ឲ្យ​ពួក​គាត់​  ចេះ​ប្រើប្រាស់​​សក្ដានុពល​ដ៏​ប្រសើរ​បំផុត​ដែល​​ខ្លួន​មាន​ ធ្វើ​ឲ្យ​ជីវិត​របស់​ខ្លួន​​បាន​ប្រសើរ​ឡើង​ តាម​រយៈ​​ការ​គិត​ធំ​ ផ្ដើម​ធ្វើ​ពី​តូច​ "នេះ​គឺ​ជា​សម្ដី​​របស់​កញ្ញា នាង សុវត្ថានា​ ប្រធាន​ "សមាគម​គំនិត​ផ្ដួចផ្ដើមនៃ​ការ​ផ្លាស់​ប្ដូរ​" នៅ​ក្នុង​បទសម្ភាសន៍​មួយ​ ជាមួយ​អង្គការ​វិទ្យាស្ថាន​បើក​ទូលាយ ។ កញ្ញា​​​ ត្រូវ​បាន​មជ្ឈដ្ឋាន​ជុំវិញ​​ ទទួល​ស្គាល់​ថា ជា​នារី​ឆ្នើម​មួយ​រូប​ ដោយសារ ទេពកោសល្យ​ដឹក​នាំ​ដ៏​ប៉ិន​ប្រសប់​​របស់​កញ្ញា​ ដែល​មាន ទស្សនវិស័យ​ "គិត​ធំ ផ្ដើម​ធ្វើ​ពី​តូច" ​អនុញ្ញាត​ឲ្យ​កញ្ញា​ត្រូវ​បាន​ជ្រើស​តាំង​ជា​ប្រធាន​សមាគម ចូល​ប្រឡូក​ក្នុងពិភព​ការងារ​តាំងពី​វ័យ​ក្មេង​ ។ 
សុវត្ថានា បាន​ដំណាល​ប្រាប់​ ​អំពី​ដំណើរ​ជីវិត​ការងារ​របស់ ខ្លួន ដូច្នេះ​ថា ៖ "...​នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ ​ផ្ដើម​ធ្វើ​ការងារ​ពេញ​ម៉ោង​ នៅ​ឯ​​សមាគម​យុវជន​ខ្មែរ​ "ក្នុង​ឆ្នាំ​២០០៤ ។ តាំង​ពី​ឆ្នាំ​២០០៧​មក នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ បាន​និង​កំពុង​ធ្វើ​ការ​ ជា​អ្នក​ជំនួយ​ការ​កម្មវិធី​ "មូលនិធិ​ ហ្វ្រេឌិច ណៅមែន​" ។ ក្នុង​ពេល​ជាមួយ​គ្នា​នេះ ដែរ នាងខ្ញុំ​ ក៏​ជា​ប្រធាន​ស្ម័គ្រ​ចិត្ត​នៃ​ "សមាគម​គំនិត​​ផ្ដួច​ផ្ដើម នៃ​ការ​ផ្លាស់​ប្ដូរ​" ដែល​ជា​អង្គការ​យុវជន​ស្ម័គ្រ​ចិត្ត​ ស្ថិត​នៅ​រាជធានី​ភ្នំពេញ និង​មាន​​ការិយាល័យ​សាខា​មួយ​ នៅ​ខេត្ត​បាត់​ដំបង ។ ​តាំង​ពី​អាយុ​១៥ឆ្នាំ​មក​ នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ បាន​ចូល​ប្រឡូក​ក្នុង​សកម្ម​ភាព​ស្ម័គ្រ​ចិត្ត​ជា​ច្រើន មាន​ជា​អាទិ៍ ការ​បោះ​​ជំរំ​យុវជន សិក្ខាសាលា កិច្ច​ប្រជុំ​ ការ​បង្រៀន​ភាសា​អង់គ្លេស​និង​កុំព្យូទ័រ​ ជំនួយការ​គម្រោង​អភិវឌ្ឍន៍​នានា និង​ការ​បង្កើត​គម្រោង​ជាច្រើន​ទៀត​សម្រាប់​យុវជន​​"។
ឈរ​លើ​ទស្សន​វិស័យ​​ច្បាស់​លាស់​របស់​ខ្លួន​ កញ្ញា​ នាង សុវត្ថានា​ បាន​បង្ហាញ​ពី​បែប​ផែន​នៃ​ទេពកោសល្យ​ដឹក​នាំ​របស់​ខ្លួន​ថា កញ្ញា​​ប្រើ​ប្រាស់​ភាព​ជា​អ្នក​ដឹក​នាំ​របស់​​កញ្ញា​ ដើម្បី​ជះ​ឥទ្ធិ​ពល​ដល់​មនុស្ស ដោយ​ការ​ផ្ដល់​ឲ្យ​អ្នក​ទាំងនោះ​ នូវ​គំរូ​វីរភាព​ណាមួយ​ដែល​បុគ្គល​នោះ​ពេញ​ចិត្ត​ ហើយ​និង​លើក​ទឹក​ចិត្ត​ឲ្យ​អ្នក​ទាំង​នោះ​ ជឿជាក់​លើ​សក្ដានុពល​ដ៏​ប្រសើរ​​​បំផុត​ដែល​ខ្លួន​មាន​​ ។ កញ្ញា​បាន​បន្ថែម​ទៀត​ថា ជា​ដំបូង​ កញ្ញា​ផ្សារ​​ភ្ជាប់​​ទំនាក់ទំនង​ផ្ទាល់​ខ្លួន​ ជា​មួយ​អ្នក​ទាំងនោះ​ តាម​រយៈ​ការ​ចែក​រំលែក​រឿងរ៉ាវ​ផ្ទាល់​ខ្លួន និង​ការ​ជួយ​ពួកគេ​ដោះស្រាយ​បញ្ហា​ផ្ទាល់​ខ្លួន​។ កញ្ញា​បាន​ប្រកាន់​យក​ នូវ​ជំពូក​អ្នក​ដឹកនាំ​មួយ​បែប​ ដែល​កញ្ញា​​បាន​ឲ្យ​ដឹង​ ដូច្នេះ​ថា ៖ "នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ ចង់​ធ្វើ​ជា​អ្នក​ដឹក​នាំ​មួយ​ប្រភេទ ដែល​គិត​អំពី​ការ​បម្រើ​អ្នក​នៅ​ក្រោម​បង្គាប់​ ជា​ជាង​ការ​ពង្រឹង​ការ​បង្គាប់​បញ្ជា​របស់​ខ្ញុំ​​​ទៅ​លើ​ពួកគេ​"។
ជា​សមិទ្ធផល​ សុវត្ថានា​ បាន​​ប្រាប់​ថា៖ "ឥទ្ធិពល​ទី​១​នៃ​ការ​ដឹកនាំ​របស់​នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ ដែល​នាង​ខ្ញុំ​សង្កេត​ឃើញ​ គឺ​​បន្លាស់​ប្ដូរ​វិជ្ជមាន​ជាច្រើន​ របស់​យុវជន​ដែល​នៅ​ជុំ​វិញ​ខ្លួន​ ។ ពួកគេ​​ បាន​ប្រែ​ក្លាយ​​ ការ​គ្រាន់តែ​ចេះ​គិត​គូរ​​ថែទាំ​អំពី​ខ្លួន​ឯង​ ឲ្យ​ទៅ​ជា​ការ​ចេះ​​យកចិត្តទុកដាក់​ថែទាំ​សង្គម​ទាំងមូល​ ហើយ​បាន​ចាប់​ផ្ដើម​​ស្វែង​រក​វិធី​សាស្ត្រ​ ជួយ​​ធ្វើ​ឲ្យ​ប្រទេស​កាន់​តែ​​ប្រសើរ​​ឡើង​ ។ នាង​ខ្ញុំ​បាន​ឃើញ​ផ្ទាល់​នឹង​ភ្នែក​ថា ប្រមាណ​ ១០នាក់ នៃ​យុវជន​ទាំងនោះ​ បាន​​ផ្ដើម​គំនិត​បង្កើត​គម្រោង​​ជាច្រើន ទាក់ទង​នឹង​ការ​ស្ម័គ្រ​ចិត្ត​នានា​ ក្រោម​កិច្ច​សម្រប​សម្រួល​ពី​សមាគម ។ ...ឥទ្ធិពល​ទី​២​នោះ​ គឺ​ថា ភាព​ជា​អ្នក​ដឹក​នាំ​របស់​នាង​ខ្ញុំ​ ត្រូវ​បាន​ប្រើ​ប្រាស់​ជា​គំរូវីរភាព​ សម្រាប់​យុវជន​ដទៃ​ទៀត ដែល​ជំរុញ​ឲ្យ​ពួក​គេ​ធ្វើ​សកម្ម​ភាព​និង​ជឿជាក់​លើ​ខ្លួន​ឯង"។
ក្រៅ​ពី​ជោគជ័យ​ ដែល​រៀប​រាប់​ទាំង​អំបាល​ម៉ាន​ខាង​លើ សុវត្ថានា​ ក៏​ជួប​ប្រទះ​នូវ​ការ​ប្រឈម​មួយ​ចំនួន​ដែរ ​​ទាក់​ទង​នឹង​ការ​គ្រប់​គ្រង​ពេល​វេលា ។ ទោះបី​ជា​ខិត​ខំ​បែង​ចែក​ការងារ​ទៅ​តាម​អាទិភាព​របស់​វា​យ៉ាង​ណា ក្ដី កញ្ញា​មាន​អារម្មណ៍​ថា ខ្លួន​ពុំ​ទាន់​ចេះ​គ្រប់គ្រង​ពេលវេលា​បាន​ល្អ ពិសេស​ពេល​ធ្វើ​ការងារ​ច្រើន​កន្លែង សិក្សា​ និង​ថែទាំ​ប្អូន​ៗ​​របស់​កញ្ញា​ ក្នុង​ពេល​តែ​មួយ​ជាមួយ​គ្នា ។ ថ្វី​បើ​យេនឌ័រ​ត្រូវ​បាន​កញ្ញា​ធ្លាប់​គិត​អាច​ជា​ឧបសគ្គ​ដល់​ភាព​ជា​អ្នក​ដឹក​នាំ​ កញ្ញា​បាន​ផ្លាស់​ប្ដូរ​ការ​គិត​នេះ ក្រោយ​ពី​កញ្ញា​បាន​ចូល​ប្រឡូក​ការងារ​ ក្នុង​ស្ថាប័ន​អង្គការ​ក្រៅ​រដ្ឋាភិបាល​ ហើយ​អះអាង​ថា ស្ត្រី​ត្រូវ​​បាន​គេ​ផ្ដល់​អាទិភាព​ជា​ច្រើន។
កញ្ញា នាង សុវត្ថានា បាន​ផ្ដល់​ជា​មតិ​យោបល់​ថា ៖ "គ្មាន​អ្វី​ដែល​អាច​ជួយ​ស្ត្រី​ឡើយ ប្រសិន​បើ​ស្ត្រី​មិន​ទទួល​ស្គាល់​នូវ​គុណ​តម្លៃ​និង​សក្ដានុពល​របស់​ខ្លួន​នោះ ។...ស្ត្រី​ត្រូវ​យល់​ថា​ ការ​កើត​មក​ជា​ស្ត្រី​ មិន​មែន​ជា​បន្ទុក​ទេ តែ​ជា​អត្ថ​ប្រយោជន៍​"៕

Thursday, 30 December 2010

Remarkable People of the Year 2010

Time, as always, runs super fast. 2010 is ending and 2011 is starting super soon. I would like to take this opportunity to thanks some remarkable people of the year 2010. They made my life more beautiful, more joyful, and have contributed to my successes.

One the occasion of our one year anniversary
First most important person is Panha, my boyfriend. As of today, we have been together for 19 months and 13 days. He has supported me with no condition. He is not just a boyfriend, but also a motor taxi driver, a massager, a teacher, an editor, a report writer, a designer, a consultant, a bank, a reminder, a great helper, an entertainer, a photographer, an audient, a source of information, and much more. He is the only person who I can have a good cry with. He has been doing everything I ask or even not ask and has done them from his heart. He is the man behind the scene of all my works. Plus, he does things he doesn’t like if it made me happy.

Second, thanks to my program manager, my colleagues, and FNF in General. I have been working here for 4 years now. This place gave me freedom; allow me to experiences political life, broaden my attention, and link me to a broaden network. Most importantly, my program manager, Mr. Khim Sophanna, allow me to experience freedom to work while at the same time being a responsible person and teach me how to handle pressure. He has been a role model for being committed, a planner, and a follow up person. My colleagues, Kok Tha and Kunthea, are the greatest cooperator. They trusted me 100%.
Kok Tha, En Sokunthea, Khim Sophanna, and Me

ICA Core Team members in Phnom Penh and Battambong
Third, thanks to all ICA members for elected me as the president. I have to deeply thank my only staff- Rany. She has been providing me great assistant at anytime including night time, weekend, and holiday. All the core team members have inspired me to never stop fighting for a better Cambodia. They are the reminder to keep me motivated and having hope. They allow seeing and believing in “thinking big starting small.” They are great people. Their works with ICA has contributed to decreasing gap between the rich and the poor. They spend their time, energy, and money to have the work done. I have been with ICA for six years now, seeing their hard work keep me believing that Cambodia is having the chance to prosper.


Dj Lion, Niko, and Me


Fourth, thanks to Sarika FM 106.5 and of course my fans. Being a radio host of Lovely Night talk show for 2 years now, made me feel like a super star. My fans love me like their sisters. Without them I couldn’t have been working for media that long. Media is the fourth power and I am in it now. While helping my fans to deal with their problems, it increased my general knowledge and keeps me informed/updated about relationship matters. Some issues are totally new for me. My fans are also my teachers. One more, working at Sarika allowed me to be updated with new song. Being the radio host, led me to other working area too which is being MC for different event/party.

My bother, sisters, and Me
Last but not least, thanks to my family; especially, my brother and sisters. Well, they are more like a burden but at the same time the reasons for being hard working. Without these responsibilities I may have wasted my time. The challenges I face are what make me stronger. They are the reasons I have to work more, and the more works I have, the more lessons I learn. They made my life more meaningful and useful. There are many more people to thanks but I better stop here. These are the most remarkable people of my life, they made 2010 so successful. Thanks.

Tuesday, 23 November 2010

Expressing our sadness

Dear All 

For your information, my team and I are going to meet at 5pm tomorrow (25th November 2010) at parking place at Wat Botum (in front of Hong Kong Center). We are going to dress in black and white, carrying candle, incense, and flower, walk from there toward Koh Pich bridge. Arriving Koh Pich bridge, we are going to pray for our people who passed away. I know it doesn't help much, but what we are doing to show that we care and we are sorry for what have happened.

I have found some families who lose their family members and in need of urgent help financially. Therefore, while gathering there, we are also going to do some fund raising for them. I will be responsible for bringing those money to the families by myself. If you wish to donate, please contact me.

If you, your family, or friends wish to join, please be there at 5pm. You will see us dressing in black and white. 

For information relating tomorrow walk, please contact :

Nana : 092 663 062
Srey Leak (Nana's sister) : 098 863 396
Panharath (Nana's boyfriend) : 016 369 155

Best Regard, 

Nana

Monday, 22 November 2010

Mourning

more than 300 of our own innocent people including kids died last night tragically. I am sharing my mourning by dressing black and white today till 25th November (the official mourning). If you see any kids walking around somewhere on the street, please ask them if they are looking for their parents. Please bring them to the city hall.

Friday, 1 October 2010

Ethic

Case study: When I arrived home from school, I saw a cockroach biting my shirt which was newly bought and I love it so much. In this case is it ethical or unethical to kill that cockroach?

      Killing cockroach is unethical. Killing is unethical no matter what. We, human being, are different from animal or insect that we have the ability to think weather our action is ethical or unethical. For the cockroach, as its nature, don’t have this element. Biting my favorite shirt is a big deal; however, I cannot complain the cockroach, but myself. Why wasn’t I careful enough to protect my shirt? The cockroach doesn’t have the brain that I have. On the other hand, my shirt doesn’t have a life, but the cockroach does. My shirt won’t be hurt, but the cockroach will be hurt and lose its life. It is unethical to kill a life for a thing. Lastly, killing that cockroach won’t make any better anyway. What is the point of killing that cockroach?

      However; according to ethical egoism, one can argue that it is ethical. Ethical egoism explained that people can do things that make them happy. Killing that cockroach is, at that exact moment, release anger. For some people, release anger could help them emotionally.

      Killing a cockroach seems to be small issue. Just a cockroach; who care? Yet, we have forgotten that we are actually killing a LIFE. Nobody wants to lose their lives. Taking somebody’s life just to release our anger is unethical. Releasing anger couldn’t be done by many other means.  Almost all the countries in the world have eliminated dead penalty because any killing is simply unethical and killing won’t make any better at all. It only increases conflicts and endless revenge. 

Tuesday, 10 August 2010

Media Game

The media game explains relationship between media and politics or journalist and politician. Government and political parties need the media to spread their ideology and policies while the media need news from government and political parties to be reported. In order to gain popularity, the government wants to spin news so that media would report something good about them while journalist is searching for negative news which could make a bigger headline. After the raise of private media, competition emerged between state owned and private own media.

Reinforcement strengthens existing ideas, believes, and opinions from media and individual. That’s explains self-selected news. Peoples read news of their interest and benefits from time to time and keep searching for news which confirm to their opinions.

Media is so powerful in setting our personal agenda as well as government’s agenda. They influence what we think and talk about. Media is very important. Without media, nothing become serious issue and without serious issue, why the government should respond. The media in Cambodia during the last two years make us talk about Preah Vihear conflict with Thailand by repeatedly report and debate about single situation at the border on TV, newspaper, radio, web site, and so on. Is Preah Vihear cast the only serious problem now? What is happening to price of gasoline? About a year ago, we all talk about price of gasoline and that time it was 4,400 Riel per liter. But now because all the news is about Preh Vihear, we don't talk about other stuffs anymore event if the price of gasoline now is 4,900 Riel per liter. Media somehow purposely or unintentionally make us stop talking about gasoline, but Preh Vihear. Media could also bring attention to government to debate on some certain agenda by reporting people living standard, problems, gasoline, and other requests from the people.

How journalist report on any event contribute differently on how we see it. Media frame our image on particular events. For example; the event of 9/11 which was reported as terrorist attack. Our view of that event could be different if the media reported as a group of Muslim hijacked the plan as robbery case and hit the building by accident. Another example of framing would be the recent Ms. Mu Sochua case against prime-minister Hun Sen. The event could be reported as personal case or political case which needs different response. A description under the photo of Mu Sochua walking on the street after the court room could be reported as “Mu Sochua as a law maker caused traffic jam in front of the royal palace” or “Mu Sochua express her demand of justice by demonstrating in front of royal palace” or “Armed police violate citizen (Mu Sochua and her supporter) right to freedom movement”. These descriptions frame and bring our attention differently.

PS: Dear Media people, please take some of your interest from Preah Vihear conflict to price of gasoline. The price of gasoline now is almost 5,000 Riel now. Please do something, Please!

Tuesday, 27 July 2010

What to do when I have free time? (beside meeting)

Starting from becoming a president, adding another hour of part time job, joining the working group for peace, and the women movement network, there have been million of meeting each week. These last three months, I found myself in three situations: (1) - sitting in meeting, (2) - sitting in front of computer, and (3) addicting to TV show. My third activities (watching TV show) is something I hate myself for addicted to it without even know what is it for. Sometime I just know that I don’t want to do anything, but killing time with these TV show like American Next Top Model or How I met your mother. You know because I didn’t have time at all to watch it, I let myself watching it till 1 or 2am. Anyway, my point is that I found myself lately with computer rather than human being. This evening I had two and half hour free time and I have no idea what to do or who to meet.

I somehow missed my life before a little bit. I remember that I was freer and my brain was quite fresh. Also, I enjoyed reading book a lot. Now, having a dinner with friends, I have to rush from here and there and then I can’t enjoy since I am already tired. I don’t really know what is missing, but I know it might be because I spend less time reflecting and doing quiet time or meditation.

Have you ever had this kind of feeling and situation?